Wow…just read the entire thread and am exhausted, I need a nap after that. I am glad everything has been clarified/resolved
I use Netbeans…no one else seems to use it though O_0
I will help you out, if you need it. Sent you an email
Following the story now…....it is so very very sad. OMG
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Congrats man, brilliant On to 20 000